"One day, you realize that there are some people you’ll never see again. At least, not in the same way."
— (I Wrote This For You.)
HOW TO MAKE A CUTE DRESS OUT OF SHORTS
put shorts on
put legs in one leg hole
pull up and on to shoulder
And here we have glitterweave sporting a beautiful Sunset Yellow
NEVER forget to accessorize
well one of us is going to have to change
THIS JUST KEEPS GETTING BETTER!!!
I really think
I’m winning this.
(Yoga pants do the trick)
1: You are not lazy, you are ill.
2: You are not selfish for taking care of yourself.
3: You are not arrogant for loving yourself.
4: It’s okay to feel sad, but it’s not okay to let the sadness win.
5: Your worth isn’t defined by if a person does or does not love you.
6: Do not put all of your happiness into one person. Ultimately you have to be your own hero.
7: A healthy person does not wish to be sicker. There is no such thing as “not sick enough”.
8: It’s okay to be alone every once in a while.
9: A bad day doesn’t equal a bad life.
10: Sometimes not giving into your addictions will make you feel worse in that moment than if you had given in, but honestly, the worst days in recovery are better than the best days in relapse.
11: Strategies and techniques are your new best friend.
12: Eating doesn’t mean you’re weak.
13: Not eating doesn’t mean you’re strong.
14: The words ‘f*ck it’ do come in handy once in a while.
15: Your feelings are valid simply because you’re feeling them. You do not need to justify yourself.
16: Never feel guilty for being sad because “someone has it worse than you”.
17: People are not perfect. They will offend you, hurt you and let you down from time to time, but this can be from lack of understanding; it does not mean that they don’t love you.
18: You are not a burden.
19: You have to learn to love yourself before you can fully love someone else.
20: Do not let your illness define or limit you.
21: Don’t be afraid to walk away from toxic relationships/friendships.
22: Do the things you love. Every. Single. Day.
23: It’s okay to be different.
24: Good things can, do, and will happen to you.
25: Recovery is not about being strictly happy, it’s about learning to become whole.
26: You cannot change the past, but you can learn from it. So stop analyzing it and wondering about what you could’ve or should’ve done. Learn to let go.
27: Letting go isn’t a one time thing, you need to do it over and over again.
28: The bad things people say about you, actually are reflections of what they think of themselves, not you.
29: Everything seems bad when it’s 3am.
30: You’re not worthless, you’re priceless.
31: One day this pain will all make sense to you. There are things you need to learn.
32: Ultimately it’s only your opinion of yourself that matters. Do what makes YOU happy.
33: U hella rad."
Things I’ve learned in recovery. (via mycroft-onatreadmill)
this is beautiful
"People want to hear songs with the words they’re afraid to say."
— (via lydiamarthin)
Anonymous asked: What are 10 good reasons not to commit suicide.
1) Whether or not you believe this, there is someone out there that loves you, you just might not be able to understand that at the moment but if you’re gone they’re going to miss you an unbelievable amount.
2) You’ll never be able to see that breathtakingly beautiful winters day where the snow looks as if it’s made up of a thousand diamonds nor will you be able to appreciate the shade that trees give you on a hot summers day if you’re no longer here.
3) You’ll no longer be able to hear a child’s laugh, which has to be one of the most pure sounds on Earth. It’s not fake, it’s full of joy and can be caused by the simplest thing.
4) Dancing in the rain, preferably the warm rain of summer, is something that will be missed as it’s one of the best ways to celebrate the changing of seasons and nature.
5) The simplicity, the simple things in life that go unappreciated and unnoticed; the small smile a stranger may offer you as greeting as they pass you, the delicate flutter of a butterfly’s wings, the reflection of the sun on the waves of the ocean.
6) The breeze in your hair, caressing your skin gently, lulling you into a sense of peace.
7) Holding someone’s hand, a simple gesture, that shows that you care for the person. Every hand is different, unique; just like every individual’s personality.
8) Those moments where you’re laughing so hard that your stomach hurts, that you think if you laugh any longer you’re explode.
9) The smell of freshly baked cookies, when you don’t even have to eat them to know that they will taste decadent.
10) The opportunity to explore, whether it be the world, the country, a town, or just a small path of dirt you found.
"Why do you put your self esteem in the hands of complete strangers?"
— Helena Bonham Carter (via qoldlush)
"Take me to your trees. Take me to your breakfasts, your sunsets, your bad dreams, your shoes, your nouns. Take me to your fingers."
— Margaret Atwood; “Homelanding” from Good Bones (via cybergirlfriend)